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November 17, 2011

Our Heart & Brain

Read this from Rico a while back "Never use your heart in all your decisions. God placed our brain on top so that you'll use it first before using your heart." And today Zazreen said the same "Never allow your heart to convince your mind that something you know is wrong is right."

But being stubborn as usual, I'm still following my heart most of the time. I think our heart is for supporting or objecting the first thought from the brain and brain will try their very best to convince heart. We alway following our heart till our mind say "wait! Lemme analyze..." then the brain start pulling out data from past experiences,collecting and discussing with eyes,ears and nose. When can't figure out, we will then use our finger make some connection with our hairs or nails shuffling our scalp, if still no result, maybe look up and talk to God also...if God is too busy to help, we then f the logic and tell our heart again..."I follow u" :D If our brain propose a great plan with good back up facts, our heart will back it up with full passion and fire it up ^^

Let the energy vibrate our heart, let the world inspire our brain so we always have facts to fuel up the power in us ^^

November 02, 2011

Simply Fabulous 41st Birthday




Finally a march out from my 40th, had a wonderful 41st celebrations with my parents, my three wonders and my old time buddies ^^ As years going by, I'm enjoying more and more on every single step, every step on walking alone with faith, steps walking with family and friends giving me so much of joys even on a bumpy path.
My gratitude to my parents, showing me smiling attitude in facing any challenges...my gratitude to my children having faith in me in any situation...my gratitude to my friends supporting me with your open arms. Truly appreciate and I'm so glad I came to know all the smiley faces from all over the world...I am grateful to everything provided by the mighty.
God blessed everyone and Love always ^^


























Thank you for all the warmth birthday wishes my friends, these certainly bring much joys in my fabulous 41st ^^ I am wishing Real Steel, $$$ and a castle in the greens... hard to come by? ok I'll continue wishing every year until God heard me :D

I'm wishing everyone in good health, a life fills with love & smile on each single day ^^ HUGS


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Afriza Fou * wishing u a happy birthday
Aileen Yong * ♪ ̧.•* ̈`*ིྀ ̊ღ ❤ ̊•...H a P P y ★ B i R t H D a Y ∵~★.☆∵。*∵~★.☆∵。
Alex Atoz * (Happy Birthday to You ! HappyBee).
Alex Nathan * Happy Birthday Shamaine! :)
Alex Saw * happy birthday..shamaine..
Ali Agd * HaPpy Birthday Shamaine ;-p wish you the Great fun today. will catchya soon!
Alicia Loh * Happy Birthday~!!!
Amy T L Tan * Happy birthday!
Andrea * Happy Birthday my dear! *cake*
Angeline Liew * Happy birthday to you!!
Angie Ng * Happy belated birthday Shamaine. Sorry I didn't have access to fb in the last few days. Evacuate to Saigon now. Hope u have a great birthday with ur loved ones.
Anthony Foo * Happy Birthday, Shamaine =)
App Tan * Ah Leng happy birthday oh~~
Appy Foo * Have a nice evening
Atie Mohd Yusak * Hola Hot Lady...happy birthday...;-D
Audrey Loo * Happy Birthday Shamaine!
Aynaz Reihani * Happy Birthday dear! wish you all the best.kisses.
Azadeh Eskandari * Happy B-D girl, have a blast !

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Bee Fuey Ching * Happy Birthday, Shamaine!
Ben Lim * hey..Birthday Bee..hv a good one ya...God bless.
Ben Wismen * aunt shamaine, happy blessed birthday to you. i hope u are having a blast now :)
Bob Tan * Happy birthday to an exceptional person

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C.c. Foong * Happy birthday to you^_^
Calvin Cheong * sang yatt fai lok, ah leng!!!!!
Calvin Ho * Happy birthday Ah Leng
Cedric Low * Hapi Bigday!
Celyn Wai Mun Chan * happy birthday....
Chadwick Siebel * Happy Birthday, Sharmaine. Have a great day !!
Cherynn Lai * happy birthday pretty ^^
Chia Siaw Ping * Happy Birthday to U !!!!
Chin Lin * happy birthday Shamaine. continue to share your energy and optimism with us
Chow Foong Yien * dear, happy birthday, stay young:)
Chow Kok Kin * Happy Birthday to you, Shamaine!!! May all your birthday wishes comes true. ;-P
Chow Kok Kin * selamat hari jadi. ;-)
Chris Shayan * happy birthday
Chris Tee * Hey! Happy Happyyyyyy Birthday to you.......:)
Chris Wee * Happy bday Shamaine!
Christine Ow Yong * HaPpY BufDaY! Stay pretty n healthy! ^-^
Chua Limbang * Happy birthday !
Chuang Pui Yee * Happy birthday, pretty :D
Cindy Ho * Happy belated birthday, hot mama!
Clementine Lee * Happy birthday !!
Cody Law H B * Happy Birthday ah!! :P
Colleen Oh * happy blessed burfday dear !
Connie Ng * Happy birthday~~~~
Corin Kf * Happy belated Birthday, Sharmaine and hope you enjoyed the best days of your life and with many more to come ! God Bless!
Cp Phua * Happy Birthday Shamaine
Cynthia Pavee * Happy Birthday

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Daniel Choong * Same here.. Happy Birthday Leng Leng Shamaine
Daniel Euceur * Happy Birthday, better late than never…
Danny Chang * Happy Birthday to you
Danny Yip * Happy Birthday Friend!
Darren Singh * Happy Birthday!
Daven Nair * Happy Birthday Shamaine!!!!! Hope you have a lovely one...... Cheers!!!!!
Debbie Lee Tai Wai * Happy belated birthday, Shamaine. May you grow in wisdom and beautiful. May your laughter never cease to bring happiness and fun to everyone around you.
Debby Wong * Wow. U wish me first this year. TQVM. Happy Birthday to you, all the best.
Dennis Warren Daniel * HappY Birthday! God Bless U ,..& Have A GreaT One....
Derek Kuah Yi Seong * happy early birthday wish..stay healthy always
Desmond Sim * Have an awesome birthday for yourself and enjoy the every moment of it!
Dev Ram * Happy Bday Bee!!
Dinish Kumar * Happy birthday
Dino Goh * 欢喜过生日~!
Doc Faisal * Sharmine..... May all your wishes come true..... Have a safe celebration.... Happy Birthday dear.... GOD bless you always... :)

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Echo GL Tan * Happy Birthday!
Eddie Chai * Ya! happy happy to your everyday ya
Eddie Yap * Happy Belated Birthday Sharmaine! I'm sure you had a blast!
El Choo * wow. now can. Happy B'day dear!
Elaine Leow * happy b'day
Elissa Ilian * HAppY BuRfDaY my dear.. u're looking younger n younger every yr..hugz
Ellina Yap * Happy happy birthday!! Wish u happy always )^o^(
Emily Chia * Happy Birthday!
Emily Koo * Happy birthday deear J
Emmerine Tan * Happy Birthday. wish you always happy,healthy & forever young
Emo Nikolov * Happy Birthday , Happy Bee : Get All the BEST from the BEST!!!
Eugene Wong * hapi birthday!...

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Fabian Ho * happy birthday
Farimah Ghasemboland * Happy birthday . wish you the best
Fazillah Hassan * Happy Birthday old friend!! Enjoy..
Fion Chin * Happy birthday :)
Fong Lee Yong * Happy birthday pretty!!!
Fong Li * happy brithday to u....liang lui..
Francesco Argento * heyyyyy Shamaine Happy birthday!!! J I wish you all the best, enjoy your day!! I’m sure u will enjoy your nite ;) big kiss
Francis Chin * Happy birthday!
Fritz von Münchhausen * Happy happy b-day! c:

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Gary Tiow * Yippie burpppp.......day HappyBee!! Cheers....
Gordon Nonis * Happy Birthday Shamaine! :D
Grace T. Bessant * Happy happy hor...

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Hanzman Klein * HBD Shamaine..GBU Always..
Hazel Leong * HAppy Birthday gorgeous!!
Henry Tanuwiharja * happy b'day :D
Heong Chee Mei * Happy Birthday to you Shamaine :D may all your dreams come true! Stays pretty healthy happy forever :D xxx
Hg Helena * 生日快乐 ....
Ho Yew Yee * Er Jie, happy belated birthday! :p
Honey Lemon * happy birthday Shamaine!
Hong Atoz * I'm smelling a b'day girl is in the haus!!! :D
Humberto Santana Castellano * Happy Birthday Shamaine! have a wonderful day! Kissesssss! :)

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Iceblue Aballe * Happy birthday, Shamaine. Age is just a number, what is more important is that we remain young at heart :) Have a blast, girl!!!
Ika Ramz * Happy birthday :)
Inayah Ariffin * Happy birthday, flower! :) xoxo
Ivan Ho * Hi Shamaine, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

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Jackie Khoo * Happy 'Bling-Bling' Birthday! ♥
Jaclyn Choong * Happy Birthday, girl! May you have a great day ahead :D
Jaime Briz * Happy Birthday, Shamaine!
James T K Khoo * hapi bday shamie jeh jeh :D
Jamie Phuah * Happy birthday dear..wishing u prosperous n health 4 u wil b happy as always…muack muack muack
Janny & Stephen * Happy belated birthday to you. Wish your life getting happier & happier.
Jasmine Ho * Happy Birthday my fren!! J
Jasmine Yap * happy birthday hot mama!!
Jason Chan * Happy Shamaine Day!
Jayanthi Asokan * Happy happy birthday dear Shamaine, have a wonderful day :)
Jeevan Sahadevan * Happy birthday hot shot!
Jeff Hwong * Happy happy bday...have fun
Jeff Jun Wei * Happy Birthday!
Jennifer Young * good morning and happy birthday, shamaine! may God grant you all the desires of your heart and stay charming always! :)
Jes Aballe * Happy Birthday Shamaine HappyBee! Stay beautiful and happy.
Jesphine Quah * Hi Shamaine Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day and lots of fun!!
Jet Poon * happy birthday mom!!!
Jimmy Lim * sang yat fai lock...
Jimmy Oddstuff Chew * hepi heppi burfdei shamaine...
Jo Aina Tan * Happy bday, pretty woman! Stay healthy and pretty! :)
Jocelyn Chin Hui * Happy Birthday Shamaine!!!!
Joe Yap * AIYO!!! How could I have missed this beautiful lady's birthday!!!! Too late better than never.. :) Happy Belated Birthday my dear... :) nvm.. Everyday also your birthday!!! ;) Dun worry.. the number decreases.. kekekeke
Johnnie Lim * Shamaine., Happy Birthday.
Johnny Ong * happy birthday to u
Jonathan Teoh * happy happy birthday
Josephine Fong * Happy Belated Birthday Shamaine! ♥
Josephine S F Tan * Happy Birthday..
Joyce Peh * Happy Birthday :)
Joyce Puan * Happy Birthday !
Jr Niger * Happy Birthday Shamaine!
Julie Tan * Wen. Happy belated birthday. May god bless u abundance in all ur wishes.

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Kamen Liew * Happy Birthday....
Karen Neoh * happy happy birthday gorgeous!!!
Katie Mat * happy birthday Shamaine!!! have a blast!
Kelly Lee * Happy birthday !
Ken Wong * Happy Birthday :) where you celebrating ;)
Kenmin Ken * Happy Birthday to U !!!!
Kenny Chan * Hi!!!Leng Lui!! i c a lot of yr frens refer to u as leng lui....wat's yr secret? nd to share it with my wife !!!...hahaha!!! Anyway, Have the Greatest Blessed Birthday ever!!!..:-)
Khinny Ho * happy birthday to you ........
Khor Teong Hiel * Happy Birthday Shamaine HappyBee
Khun Liz * Happy Birthday Ms Happy Bee ! :) Stay energetic & youthful always !
Kingston Foo * Happy Birthday Shamaine...have a great one boss
Kirk Keong Lee * Happy Birthday HappyBee, i m sure you will have a blast... :) have more... :0)
Kl Chong * Happy birthday
Kt Caren * leng lui Shamaine HappyBee 生日快乐,美艳动人!
Kw Chin * Happy birthday, I hear fireworks celebrating flr u.

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L C Meng Poksy * Happy birthday, Pretty Girl.
LaiYee Sit * Happy birthday, Shamaine!
Larry Law * Yo yo~~生日快乐, 青春常驻~
Leong Chan Leng * happy b'day
Lim Hsin Yi * Reanne's mummy !! HAPPY BUFFDAY ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ wohoo
Lim Thin Chin * happy birthday
Linda Chan * hi happy birthday to u shamaine!
Loke Poi Ching * hapi belated b'day, gal. btw, i luv ur profile pic.
Low Mei Lin * Happy Birthday.............. :)
Lucas Ng Weidy * happy birthday!!
Lum Oldman * Happy Belated Birthday to You ;)

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Maria汤宁霄 * 生日快乐!♪(´ε` )
Marcus Yong * Inside every older person is a younger person – wondering what the hell happened.... just kidding, Happy Birthday.
Mark Han * Happy Birthday, my fellow suukee.. :-)
Masoumeh Myr * Happy happy birthday! wish you all the best and hope to have the best one :*
Matthias Gelber * Happy green birthday to the HappyBee
Melvin Chan * Happy Birthday Happy Bee ! all the best
Mervyn LilSlyder Hsh * Happy Belated B-day LL :)
Michael Ty Lee * Aiks ..... happy belated b'day !
Michelle Mah * Happy belated Birthday and always be bless.
Mohammad Mohammadi * happy birthday to u Shamaine, many happy returns of today
Moh'd Sani Yau * happy buffdaee shamaine..! wishing u long life full of success & accomplishment.!(*_*)
Msian Gutter Politics * Happy birthday
Muntip Liew * happy birthday, u r forever young!

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Natalie Toon * Happy Birthday!!!!!!
Neny Solis Chew * Yippy Burbday Beautiful ! Looking great, stay healthy and forever sweet. Muacks (^^)
Nkki Sunny Spot * Wishing you loads of love,joy and suprises on your birthday, have a blast my dear ! :)
Nora Foo * happy birthday gorgeous! :)

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Ong Ky * Sukee, wish you a hapbee, healthbee and wealthbee birthday!!!
Ong Wai Meen * My dear friend. You are just like “Fine Wine”. You grow better with the years! Happy Birthday To Yo *Shamaine*. Wishing you all the fun and excitement that only Birthdays can bring.

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Patrick Yong * Happy Deepavali Birthday! :-)
Pauline Gerault * happy birthday!
Pei Pei Tai * 靓女!心想事成!生日快乐!
Peter Lau * Happy Birthday to You
Phua Chiu Kiang * Happy belated birthday Shamaine. Looking better every year :).
Prasath Kanagaras * Happy birthday babe
Princess Diane * Happy Belated Birthday! Was so drunk yesterday that i cant even log in to Facebook! Anyway i celebrated it yesterday behalf of you here n yes we all had fun! xoxo
Puvan Maha Iswara * happy birthday miss!

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Regine * Happy Birthday. Mummy! I love you!
Reanne * Happy Birthday Mummy
Ryan * Happy Birthday Mummy
Rachel Kuan * Happy belated Birthday :*) :*) :*)
Raymond Chew * Happy Birthday 2u....^.^.....
Razli Ralib * Hppy Bday sis!
Reena Tz * Happy birthday, sweetie! Hv a great year ahead and may all ur wishes come true....:)) Fr us: Damien & Reena
Reinee Pan * Happy birthday to leng lui Shamaine, looking great every year! Cheers!
Remy Foo * Happy birthday to you!!!
Rich Too * wish you happy and blessed birthday!!!
Richard Yeoh * happy bday happyBee :-)
Riko Yee * Happy Birthday Shamaine!
Rochek Kk * HappyBee Day!
Rolaand Tan * Happy birthday babe ;)
Royyie Ling * Happy Birthday Shamaine HappyBee beauty as always ya... ^_- muax...
Rozalynn Zainul * happy birthday hot mama!!
Ruby Choong * Happy birthday pretty

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Sam Hulk Blaster * happy birthday bee~~~!!!
Samuel Chan * Happy birthday!
Sandra Chan * Happy birthday beautiful! Have a great one!!! xx
Shang Ko * Happy Birthday Shamaine HappyBee!!!! Hope your day will be as wonderful as you wish it to be. See you soon!
Shanice Leong * Happeee BUTTDAY! May your day be great and coming year awesome..
Sharon Cheong * happy birthday...
Sharon Yeoh * Happy birthdayy hot babe..~!!!
Shee Meng Voon * Happy Birthday.....
Shelby Kho * ♥ pink bday shamaine :)
Sherrena Chiam * "I hope this year brings you all the fulfillment and success that your heart desires."
Sherry Lee * Happy birthday Shamaine dear =) wish you remain youthful & cheerful all year round. Be blessed =D
Shwu Shyan Pou * Happy Birthday!
Sleepy Genie * Happy birthday shamaine~ have a great one!
SooChin Chan * happy birthday!
Sook Yee * Happy birthday to you.
Stanley Chin * Happy Birthday...
Stanlley Tai * happy birthday beautiful hottie! ;)
Stephanie Xavier * happy birthday shamaine!!! have an awesome birthday and stay young at heart always! xxooxx : )
Stephy Ng * Happy burfday, woman!!! may you always stay the pretty, young and healthy :) enjoy your special day ya! cheers :)
Suki Jezz * bella beautiful....happy bday.........muckz muckz!
Sunrise Seekers Sayli * blessed fabulous woman day!@
Sze Yen * happy birthday ^^

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Tan Nee Fei * Happy birdday. Yang yang. Cheers and happy always.
Teng Choonweng * happy birthday pretty, may all your wish came true
Terry Kok * Happy birthday...
Tey Cindy * happy belated birthday, happy bee! hope to meet up with u soon ^.^
Thomas Christopher Nabil Ribbe * Happy Happy Bee Day!!! Enjoy your special day :D
Tony Lin * 嘿!!生日快樂^^祝福..

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Valene Chin * happpy birthday my dear! just stay sha!!! xo
Victor The * Happy, happy birthday. Keep smiling, it brings smiles to others too.
Victoria Law * Happy Belated Birthday dear HappyBee :D
Vince Tieh * Happee burthday

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Wendy Low * Dearest Shamaine, wishing you a very “Happy BiRTHDay” and all the very BEST! Enjoy your day!
Wendy Ong * happy belated birthday...
Weng Woo * wish u happy birthday...
William Foo * Npi Bday..hv fun
Winnie Loo M H * Happy birthday Sharmaine..
Wui Joel * Happy buf day

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Xeryue Cheeng * Happy Birthday...wishing you all the best. Today is still 26th in London.....hehe...cold & wet here.
Xiang-Yi Khor * Happy Birthday Shamaine! Stay cheerful, pretty and full of life and energy always! ^^
Xiao Zhen * Happy birthday babe!!!!!!!

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Yasmin Suraya * Happy Birthday..have a great day...
Yippie MY * Happy Birthday... Wishes you all the BEST and HAPPY always.
You Xian Hang * Happy birthday =)
Yvonne Hen * Happy Birthday, Shamaine! Have a blast!
Yvonne Siew * HappyBirthday Shamaine HappyBee day to you!! xxx

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Zac Lim * happy birthday !!
Zazreen Zahovic * Happy birthday pretty woman!! wishing you a blessed & happy life ever after! ;)
Zibert Wong * Happy birthday gorgeous...stay healthy and pretty ya
Zieda Halem * Hello my dear..Happy Birthday to you...muah..muah..
彬驸马 * 祝妳生日快樂~願望成真唷~::::::: Happy Birthday to You::::::


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