或许你不会在语言中遇见我,但是你一定会在文字中发现我。

July 01, 2017

Hello July!

July: TQ for calling July, what can we do for you? 😊
Me: Hello, July.
July: Yes, this is July. what can I do for you?
Me:  Do you do delivery?
July: Certainly we are! What do you like to have?
Me: I would like to make order for the whole month. Can I?
July: Sure! Is our 1st day, warehouse  is now loaded 😃
Me: Great! Please send me a dozen of surprise, 31 good days, 31 sweet dreams, 15 laughter days, 20mins moody moments, 5 ROFLOL moments, 31 safe days, 31 healthy semangat days, 5 guilt free makan days...that's all. 😛
July: Great choices! We have all of it!
Me: wait.... make it 100 sets please.
July: auh...so many? Can you finish all by yourself?
Me: duh...not all for myself ler, ordering for my family and some friends too.
July: I see.. ok, give you a quatity discount of 100%, here is a surprise free for you 😉
Me: O...Wow...TQ 😍
July: Most welcome! TQ for your early order. Delivery on the way. Do email us the recipients and addresses of where you want to deliver for the rest of your 99 orders 😊 Our email address is July2017@Happylife.com. You may add on your list in the email. We will make it up. TQ for calling July! Have an Awesome July ahead!
Me: TQ July! Looking forward for your delivery ❤❤❤

*Guess what I added in my email to July...
15 night of rains, a dive trip, 4 hikings, 20 walkajogs, 4 trainings, 8 ageLOC orders. 1000 smiles 😉

#july
#2017


June 28, 2017

青春 • 成长 • 成熟


青春是任性可以让我们看起来很酷很有性格的时期。


成长是什么?

成长是一个继续任性会让我们过的遍体鳞伤的时期。


成熟是什么?

成熟是看着那群青春无限告诉他们。。。"喂。。。你们TMD的别乱挥霍青春,一天你们会像我酱后悔没好好用!"

然后这群青青无限的家伙会如你当年般, 看着你, 然后。。。 "Che...还以为什么新教条。。。" 

然后你就看着青春渐渐走远。。。

然后你就继续碎碎念。。。"一群不懂事的青春,想当年我。。。。"

然后发现,原来你挥霍了青春,辜负了成长,连成熟也错过。


成熟是什么?

成熟是接受青春必然会离去, 无谓抓着任性死守不放。 不断学习,让成长相随到老。

何时该放开,何事该拿起, 成熟都会在遇上不同的时间,地点,人事物 一 一 告知。


写在2017.06.28 2100,坐在客厅风呼呼吹的晚上。


#文谈思享 

June 14, 2017

ageLOC Before After

I think this is the best "before-after" ever!
Dunno why, I just love this😂😄😉😁

Good commercial kan? 😂

我有让自己发笑的能力,
我有让自己感动的能力,
我有让微笑传染的能力,
我有让天天欢笑的能力,
因为我深明悲伤无需能力。


#shioksendiri
#ageLOC


June 13, 2017

Sweet Yummy Chinese Desserts

After the heartache RM30 roasted goose drumstick, luckily we had this famous authentic handmade Chinese desserts balanced up our mood. the location is just a stone's throw from Chen Chen Roasted Goose. A must try if you are visiting Kuala Lumpur 😊

Reasonable price, smooth texture and YUMMY!

Almond paste - RM4.50
Peanut / Sesame paste - RM3.30
Egg custard - RM3

* by the way, this shop has many funny name stalls... 忘不了(forget not), 容易记(easily remember). And the dessert stall clearly stated 不好吃,不收钱 (no need to pay if taste not good) 😂

#Happybeefooddiary


Here is the price chart for all the diff type of desserts available.


Chen Chen Roasted Goose

With mom strolling old KL Jalan Pasar, went to area where dad had morning market selling.

美景 Loh mee shop was closed and saw Chen Chen Roasted goose, can't recall when was my last visit (20years ago? maybe...more) so we ended here.

Ordered a goose drumstick and roasted pork. Taste is good, tender and juicy.

Asked for the bill, RM45 in total for 2. We were a little shocked at the price for a hawker stall by the roadside. Goose drumstick is RM30 😲 Whole toasted goose is asking for RM200 - RM220. (Obviously we are not goose kakis, not aware that market price for goose can be so high 😛)

Guess this meal will last me for another 20 years to be back.

#happybeefooddiary





My RM30 Roasted Goose Drumstick. 


June 12, 2017

迎新会

Given my new Ah Zi an orientation, getting to know each other better 😉

给阿紫来个迎新会,带它走走适应一下环境,彼此了解一下。







June 11, 2017

Time To Say Goodbye

Not excited at all having my new when a must to farewell to my old buddy... grateful for all those miles we've gone thru ❤


[写在一个被烂鞋触动心灵的两点十五分下午]

很多时总怕自己太用情,对物对事对人。
只要那怕有过一秒一分一刻一事,
我感受过的真,会永记。

结果就这样。。
心里住了一大堆的人;
脑里记了一大堆的情;
箱里收了一大堆不捨得。

万物皆有情,
他她也许忘了,
它牠根本没记下,
有福之人只想说一声。。。
谢谢交心,
感谢分享,
感恩付出。^^

June 10, 2017

八卦

[星期六八卦早晨]

去过Raju吃早餐的都知道,与陌生人同桌是免不了的。今早隔壁坐着三个三十多的嬲年轻人。没刻意去听邻桌的交谈, 可两男应该是想争取女生好感吧, 声量让我没办法╮(╯_╰)╭不听到。

还在想怎么男生可以高分贝到这程度, 讲话拿来喊。就在这时。。。
男一 : 那个蓝冷。。。蓝子酱酱酱。。。那个女的还可以, 我挺喜欢她, 做事真不错。。。那个蓝的就不行。。。
(Lan...nan 变 lan... 想想也对呗 😝)

接下来,来了! 差点把吃进口的roti canai 喷回出来。。。
男二 :那个女的啊。。哎哟,真的不行啊。。。她肥哦,样子又看不下喔。。。哎哟。。。"好彩"做事ok啦。
(一,我对华语"好彩"这个形容词常觉超刺耳的。)
(二,"她肥哦,样子又看不下喔",我记得我即刻抬头再看过去确认一下,因为印象中坐下时,男二的外表也是如那个他刚形容的她那样。怎么。。。怎么他可以讲别人讲的那么熟悉如讲自己般?)

发现全程没有"女一:" 吗?因为都是两个蓝的在说鸟话。。。

女人最怕听到男人八卦,更怕听到男人高调踩踏其他女人面貌身形。。。管他八卦者六块腹肌或一大粒。

八卦永远是女人的权力,男人请往一边siam去。

后来,吃完,走人,我散场。。。

June 01, 2017

My ageLOC World

Often I get compliments of my skin, I think age helps too..as I get older, this compliments seem getting more 😅 should I be happy or not...I wonder...

Like to share my ageLOC timeline.

2010 - ageLOC Galvanic Face Spa (prior was using non ageloc series, with new ageLOC spa gel, I can't leave without this beauty genie twice a week now  😍)

2011 - ageLOC Galvanic Body Spa (firming and detox for my body, the result so obvious even after week of daily 5mins...on my tummy)

2015 - ageLOC R2 (which I didn't felt much at then, must be my energy was still good:p but last month I started consume again, must be the combine of ageLOC YouSpan and Nutriol hair... I realized my forehead hair line growing more black hair, I stopped!!! coz I want my white 😂)

2016 - ageLOC TR90 (exercise & diet played an important part, is weight management not weight loss. So din work well on me coz I didn't managed my e&d well 😁 if you thinking to start, think twice...if you are not ready to sweat and eat cleaner, don't waste your money)

2016 - ageLOC YouSpan (I can't leave without it! Why? Because my skin texture improved so much! My flaky dry legs and crack heels gone too)

2017 - ageLOC ME (after a month used, all I can say is I am feeling my skin like a baby again ;) )
Didn't realize I am a ageLOC ambassador d ^^

PM me if you are interested on ageLOC series...talk to the ambassador - that's ME :D

#ageLOC
#mybeautyandhealth

May 30, 2017

Best 404 Page!

Why Sir Richard Branson is always my idol in pursuing entrepreneurship. He just has so much fun in his business breaking the so-call "norm" in business.

While searching for his article, found an error page and wola.. roflol...(I don't think I can go as far as him 😂)

He definitely earn my respect. Success is knowing what you do and adding fun in it not only for yourself but for others too.

#RichardBranson


May 29, 2017

Sales

After years...this is still one of my fav book about selling physcology.

Often I shared with friends. If you want to take up psychology, get into sales, if you want to master it, join insurance or network marketing.

Selling makes you understand others, rejections make you understand yourself.

"In sales, you have good days and bad days. The trick is to convince yourself every morning that it's going to be a good day." - Harvey Mackay

#HarveyMackay
#Sales



May 28, 2017

能力

老天给了一些人一种能力。。。
越容易受伤害,
越能体谅别人,
也越容易释怀。
要懂的迟早会明白,
嫌弃的永远有意见,
无需太在意,
时间将会告诉你留下的是谁。


May 02, 2017

Happiness & Sufferring

Happiness is lighter than a feather,
no one can grasp it.
Suffering is heavier than the earth,
no one can let it go.
~ Chuang Tzu ~

*extracted from Moments of Mindfulness - The wisdom of Asia.

#happybeetime


April 28, 2017

Rainy Day

On this rainy day,
when the traffic is bad,
the motorists are hiding under the bridge,
some are riding under the rain,
raindrops are throwing marbles on their faces,
maybe some are rushing for a delivery,
a delivery to avoid complaint of late service,
my windscreen wipers are working hard clearing my vision,
I turn off my bachata music,
so I can listen to the pouring rhythm,
this is the best I can do,
sharing the same weather with them.

勇士

当你说我勇敢,
我以谢谢接受因感谢你的鼓励。
其实我不是勇敢一族,
我只是学会如何辨别无可避免的,
接受,选择以挑战面对,
以微笑掩盖恐惧罢了。

自古至今,勇士是被逼出来的。


April 18, 2017

Bright Road Ahead

Over the weekend, with mom and bro on our way to Kuantan, we were stucked on Karak Highway, the 20mins journey became 2 hours and were moving inch by inch.

Went on Pantai Timur Highway an hour drive, an unforgettable scene right before the rain, the rainbow was ahead right on our way 😍 After so many years of driving, this is the first time I am seeing rainbow right ahead my journey. I think dad knows it was an emotional drive for me, sent a beautiful scene brighten up our way 🌈

Ba miss you...




January 18, 2017

我教子,惟一经。

近来发现孩子真的比我想象中成熟了。

我是那种对孩子学业期许不高的妈妈。考试前会念,可考回来如成绩不理想也不会严惩。(常因为都已发生了,还唠叨什么呢?)然后当孩子要学什么,去呗,不喜欢别学了呗。。。就这样很随性的,很相信的,很无形的让孩子自己做了很多决定。

孩子渐渐长大踏入社会,都没大学毕业。常会反省是不是当年应该对他们的学业更严谨?会担心他们的竞争能力,可是更担心他们的人生价值观与自信,孝亲敬老的谦卑,兄妹之间的和睦,对人处事的判断,人生的学习。毕竟学习不是单在校园而是社会上的不断学习。

孩子在成长中的迷茫无助也变成了我的学习,学习怎么在他们成年期失落的时候还愿意听进刺耳的忠言;学习怎么让我还是选择相信他们的判断;学习怎么在远远的,冷静的陪着他们探索自己的人生,却也能在最需要时跳出来,让他们知道你一直都在。

感安慰的是孩子被一群孝顺的姑姑叔叔,阿姨舅舅围绕着成长,对长辈的孝道,人前人后的谦诚都让我放心。或许他们都听惯了我这个感性妈妈常挂在嘴边的爱你,可是我知道他们今天自主的个性因为知道背后一直有一个相信他们的妈妈,一群非常爱他们的长辈。

人教子,金满籝;我教子,惟一经。

January 15, 2017

不是朋友不够真

好多时候我们都常听说。。。低点见挚友, 高点交面具。

过去也认同这说法,可昨天被那瞬间灵光连接了两点脑细胞(大概估计两点吧,看我也不想脑细胞会用的特多的一个 ;) )

不是朋友不够真,而是自己不够真。当交朋友随便之时,朋友也赚个便宜友情。平常如待人处事缺少尊重用心,朋友从旁观察已对自己缺乏信任,只不过没说出口。所以当出现问题需要帮忙之际,身边无数借机逃之夭夭。

我觉得身边出现脱跑朋友是一件好事,是一个从新检讨自己的机会。真做对了,少一个面具朋友,赚到了;做错了,就领悟到一个改过的机会。可以在你改过后还留下来陪你成长的朋友,就是这一生赚到的挚友了 :) 不是吗? 不管好坏,到后来自己还是赢家。

人生高低点

很多时,人生的。。。

自信在高点赚回来;
领悟在低点痛出来。

生命的层次

在九运的运转下, 科技的飞速, 虚实的脱节, 心灵的空虚。 一个恍,慌,荒,谎,晃的时代。 停止过度思考不存在的问题, 用绝对的理智管控不该有的情绪。  时刻保持清醒的把自己处在的层次理清 ~ • 第一层次的物质生命: 钱,权,性,利,情。 • 第二层次的精神生命: 仁,义,礼,...