原来在爱情跌倒比在事业上跌倒可怕,因为它会让你如睡公主般长眠不醒...
爱过吗?却又记不起了...
痛过吗?也感觉不到了...
可是为什么我还在眠?
时间是良药吗?
不知道...它让我忘了过程,可是却没有带走结果。
或许你不会在语言中遇见我,但是你一定会在文字中发现我。
August 26, 2009
August 15, 2009
恋的故事
自恋 = 爱自己,不爱任何人.
暗恋 = 你爱他,可是他不知道.虽然他不知道,你还是爱他.
单恋 = 你爱他,他知道,可是他不爱你.
相恋 = 你爱他,他知道,他也爱你.
失恋 = 你曾经爱过他,他也爱过你,可是现在不爱了.
相恋最完美, 问世间情为何物。
失恋也好,至少曾经恋过。
单恋也不错,去留在於自己。
暗恋不太坏,还有恋的对象。
自恋最自在,众人皆醉,唯我独醒目。
暗恋 = 你爱他,可是他不知道.虽然他不知道,你还是爱他.
单恋 = 你爱他,他知道,可是他不爱你.
相恋 = 你爱他,他知道,他也爱你.
失恋 = 你曾经爱过他,他也爱过你,可是现在不爱了.
相恋最完美, 问世间情为何物。
失恋也好,至少曾经恋过。
单恋也不错,去留在於自己。
暗恋不太坏,还有恋的对象。
自恋最自在,众人皆醉,唯我独醒目。
August 04, 2009
Six Happiness Tips
Advice from Tal Ben-Shahar
* 1. Give yourself permission to be human. When we accept emotions — such as fear, sadness, or anxiety — as natural, we are more likely to overcome them. Rejecting our emotions, positive or negative, leads to frustration and unhappiness.
* 2. Happiness lies at the intersection between pleasure and meaning. Whether at work or at home, the goal is to engage in activities that are both personally significant and enjoyable. When this is not feasible, make sure you have happiness boosters, moments throughout the week that provide you with both pleasure and meaning.
* 3. Keep in mind that happiness is mostly dependent on our state of mind, not on our status or the state of our bank account. Barring extreme circumstances, our level of well being is determined by what we choose to focus on (the full or the empty part of the glass) and by our interpretation of external events. For example, do we view failure as catastrophic, or do we see it as a learning opportunity?
* 4. Simplify! We are, generally, too busy, trying to squeeze in more and more activities into less and less time. Quantity influences quality, and we compromise on our happiness by trying to do too much.
* 5. Remember the mind-body connection. What we do — or don't do — with our bodies influences our mind. Regular exercise, adequate sleep, and healthy eating habits lead to both physical and mental health.
* 6. Express gratitude, whenever possible. We too often take our lives for granted. Learn to appreciate and savor the wonderful things in life, from people to food, from nature to a smile.
* 1. Give yourself permission to be human. When we accept emotions — such as fear, sadness, or anxiety — as natural, we are more likely to overcome them. Rejecting our emotions, positive or negative, leads to frustration and unhappiness.
* 2. Happiness lies at the intersection between pleasure and meaning. Whether at work or at home, the goal is to engage in activities that are both personally significant and enjoyable. When this is not feasible, make sure you have happiness boosters, moments throughout the week that provide you with both pleasure and meaning.
* 3. Keep in mind that happiness is mostly dependent on our state of mind, not on our status or the state of our bank account. Barring extreme circumstances, our level of well being is determined by what we choose to focus on (the full or the empty part of the glass) and by our interpretation of external events. For example, do we view failure as catastrophic, or do we see it as a learning opportunity?
* 4. Simplify! We are, generally, too busy, trying to squeeze in more and more activities into less and less time. Quantity influences quality, and we compromise on our happiness by trying to do too much.
* 5. Remember the mind-body connection. What we do — or don't do — with our bodies influences our mind. Regular exercise, adequate sleep, and healthy eating habits lead to both physical and mental health.
* 6. Express gratitude, whenever possible. We too often take our lives for granted. Learn to appreciate and savor the wonderful things in life, from people to food, from nature to a smile.
August 03, 2009
St.Ives Eye Gel
The intention when I purchased the product was meant for my eye treatment, later discovered that the ingredients like cucumber extracts and elastin are good for soothing and skin elasticity ^^ I decided to try it on my face as a moisturizer, surprisingly it gave me a great result. After using it for more than 2 weeks, my tiny oil spots reduced and less oily :) happy with the result and price is reasonably low (RM17.20, after a 20% discount from Caring Pharmacy). But too bad, they stop bringing in this product anymore :(
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