It takes some time, God knows how long, I know that I can forget you...As soon as my heart stops breaking, anticipating, as soon as forever is through, I'll be over you.
[Life redefine the rules every minute depends on how you react to it.] 。 [或许你不会在语言中遇见我，但是你一定会在文字中发现我。]
July 31, 2010
July 30, 2010
Your Best & Your Worst
Winner wants the best of you...Looser wants the worst of you; Your loved ones cheer the best of you and wake you from your worst ^^
Winner wants the best
If we are surrounding by the winners, the winners always want us to bring up the best in us, motivating us to perform and unleash the best. Try our best and live the best in us. Because they been there and they are there now, so they know everything is possible to achieve, they know how is "Best" looks like.
Looser wants the worst
The looser do not wants to see the best because they afraid the best, they are avoiding success subconsciously, they jealous if they see you perform, the best in you will make them feel small and insecure, and most importantly, they have never been their best, so reaching the peak is impossible.
We must always be consciously aware of whom we are mixing with. If we think this is our best, we have to look around us. Who are surrounding us? Are they the people we like to be? Are they the people we want to be with? Look into our past, what are the activities that you've involved before? Were you at your best or worst? Who were you with during the activities?
We may think is unfair to judge our surrounding, but the fact is the people and the environment are shaping who we are today. Like it or not, we have to be consciously aware of who are we being with and where are we.
Loved ones cheering and reminding the worst
Those who love you will love to see you in your best, they will tear for your success, hug for your happiness and always bless the best in you. They will take the risk of being hate by you reminding you or even scold you when they see the worst in you, because they have faith in you, because they know how you look when you are in your best. Appreciate your loves one when they pointing out your weaknesses because this is where you are one step closer reaching your best.
With here I am dedicating this to my mom & dad, my sisters and my brothers, my children, my friends. I know when you pointed out my worst is because you want to see the best in me ^^ Love you...
July 26, 2010
Life Is About Choices
Life is about choices...choices of how you want to live your life, for yourself or to live for others? If your daily emotion is controlling by others, is time for you to ask "Whom do I live my life for? For Me or For Them?" and tell yourself "Is For Me! I choose my own emotion" ^^
In many occasions, we see people get angry or upset easily by the action of others, living their life day by day with anger and frustration. We only live our life for once, every second gone is gone, we will not have another same minute while you are reading this, when I'm writing this, the date is July 26th 2010, when today gone, will be gone no matter how we trying to stop it. So why waste energy and time for something not gonna create value in our life?
I've been consciously living my life with this as a reminder. Of course, I'm not saint and I do get my emotion roller coast whenever they like but at least I know where I am and how I can be better. I do not control or suppress any down or negative feelings when they strike, because I have to admit the Universe's power, what goes up must come down and vice versa. but I do watch out the period. If I really have to be angry or sad or down, I'll give myself 20minutes, 30 minutes, an hour or a day. I believe to acknowledge all my emotions without against the law of universe is the easiest way to live my life which I want it to be and it helps me tremendously.
When I'm upset, these are the questions I'll usually ask myself:-
1/ Do I really need to? Is the person/thing worth my energy?
If no...I'm not gonna waste time on it; If yes, I'll ask how long do I need.
2/ Why is this happen? is me or others?
If me...I'll reflect and review myself and make sure I'll change for better;
If others...I'll see is the person worth to give another chance.
So often we are standing inside the circle but trying to control everything outside the circle. We can't control or change others, but surely we are able to start from ourselves. Of course it is not easy, if we find controlling or changing our own self is difficult, what make us think that we can control or change others? But good news is life is a learning ground, we have everyday in life to learn to become better while we are still breathing ^^
July 21, 2010
Facebook Status ~ June 2010 ~
Hi all...needed to get away for a while... anything urgent please email me at shamaine.ho@hotmail.com ^^ Happiness everyday...God blessed!
I'm on to something crazy...something devil...yes! I'm DevilBee...
When you call on me When I hear you breathe I get wings to fly I feel that I'm alive
Who am I? Carrie? Charlotte? Samantha or Miranda? ...... I'm Shamaine HappyBee ^^
"We have every convenience, every comfort yet no time for Integrity" ~ Movie Kate&Leopard
Can't hide anymore...time for some fresh air...getting ready for KL marathon tmr...c y'all!
Drove there, rode there, checked there, rode back, drove back... all coz 3mins... God scares I'm losing my virginity there, safe keeping it for a while... :p
Good :) this is GOOD! God's will or my will?
My virgin solo trip^^ this how it goes...drive there,park there, fly there, sail there, sleep there, eat there, tan there, dive there, read there, mp3 there, sail back, fly back, drive back ^^ Perfecto!
^^ Frens all...THX so much for all the warm wishes...Off to my Perhentian Island tomorrow for some breeze, lots of sun or maybe some nitrogen oxygen? :p muahahaha....
Yey! I passed all my papers...MBA I'm so so so done with you... ^^ waiting for my graduation!!!
015-36131 my McD order number... waiting.... come faster Mr. Delivery man.... ^^
Season lover wanted... ^^
boys & gals...I want an out...err...movie Sex and The City...salsa...dinner...a trip...Penang...Perhentian... ^^
I have been telling myself..."When God wanna give me something great, he will keep giving me challenges until I'm good"...but at times I ask...I just wanna settle for less so I do not need to face anymore challenges.
In life we always keep searching for something better and most of the time we didn't realize we already found what we are looking for, or we simply do not need the best but needed what completes us.
Fxxx...I locked everything in my car after my jog....and now calling SOS!!! my neigbour's computer, wifi and handphone :s
"Women are made from a mans rib not from his head to be superior, not from his feet to be walked on, but from his side to be equal, from under the arm to be protected, and next to his heart to be loved..." ~ Friends 2 Lovers ~
We can plan our future but we cannot plan and just do not know who r we meeting the next second might change our life forever...
Although I can say many unkind words when angry...but deep down in a corner of my heart, I still believe the beauty I see, I still hv faith with what I believe...just too bad is beyond my control to bring it out...
Someone said "If you leave me can you please take me along?", Someone said "Why do u want me to bring you along when you want me to leave you?"
At the end of the day... we all have to admit... "We are all different and unique" never try to change others or yrself unless you are so sure you are helping others or changing yourslef to be a better person :)
I'm trying facebook power :p will see how much is hits gonna be... ^^
June 17
Woman dressed up to please their man; Man worked hard to impress their woman ^^
June 15
Had my jog...she cleaned...laundry done...time to indulge myself with a Balinese message :) lovely Sun...
An introvert I am...comfy with the soloist Sat...Can an extrovert change as time goes by? I think yes...
I tot Sex and the City 2 was up? but how come I can't find them showing? :(
WIP Bangsar...c y'all there :)
After a long ding donging... still Vios... :p wondering how soon can I get it?
A glass of red wine is all I need ^^
So many nites I cried, so I can smile when tomorrow comes...So many ways I tried, so I hv no regret when I look back...So many dreams I hv, so I know I am living my life...
I am not necessary to have ability to see weakness in others but I must be able to see weakness in myself..seeing weakness in others does not change my life, but seeing weakness in myself will shape me. For things to change I must change first!
after a all seem wonderful&busy plan...what I' actually looking for is just a quiet solo weekend...
K...weekend starting tonite-salsa,tmr salsa/movie,Sat-waterfall+salsa(maybe if not too tired :p),Sun-jog+movies marathon... ^^
Do not take advantage or take granted of love and trust given to u...u do not know when u'll lose it...but once u lost it, u gonna lost it forever...unless u able to find love in yrself...find trust in others...u'll have it again...
June 9
Love is the strongest emotion of all, coz no matter how hard or how cold a person is, the person can surely feel love and melt by it...
Finally all done...all blank :p wishing the weekend is here now...gonna hv a real relaxing solo weekend...jog,Ritz,movies,music,candles...Can't Wait! I'm back ^^
June 7
Have to stop for a moment...else will be suffocate and drown in WORDS!!!
June 4
Focus on what you're grateful for in your life. If you don't appreciate what you have, you won't get anymore...because the universe thinks it's not important to you, and therefore you don't need any more. ~ T. Harv Eker ~
No more crying...Assignment done by Fri...MBA done...Parties starts...dun let it stop baby...free my soul free my mind...
Looks like my play plans are filling up fast right before my assignment done :p frenz...hold on k...I haven't officially have my graduation yet! dun make me re-sit :p crouching tigress is coming out ^^
Dear all...I must say a big thank you and truly appreciate all your thoughtful messages and mails for your cares and concerns...I'm all good and HappyBee still :)
June 1
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