A Strange World....

A strange world we are living in, or a strange me seeing the world?

Some ignored how bad they sing until Simon Cowell told them off bluntly;
Some forgotten how corrupted they are until they locked with a hand cuff;
Some ignorantly arrogant believe they are in right because no one dare to or want to tell them right to their face;
Some got bullied because of their talent until he sang Pei Jesu to those who appreciate;
Some spent their entire life fulfilling their family materials need but no one understand;
Some bought a very big house but they spend the least time staying in their house comparing to their maids;
Some have 100 pairs of shoes but they only have two feet;
Some works hard for a better life yet they lost their life because of work;
Some spent millions of dollar buying happiness but forgotten happiness is given by own self;
Some keeps judging people but forgotten to judge themselves;
Some shared everything about others but keeping everything about them;
Some appreciating their friends being around but forgotten their parents always being around till they gone...

Actually is not the world being strange but is the highly intelligent human beings and me being strange...

BALD is Empowering

Scarlett Johansson, Natalie Portman, Jessica Alba, Renee Zellweger, Halle Berry, Angelina Jolie, Cameron Diaz, Drew Berrymore.

I am organizing an event in Facebook, me and 7 ladies are going BALD for the good cause. Supporting women suffering from breast and cervical cancer, all funds collected will go to women needed for their cancer treatment.

It is the most common cancer affecting women where one in 19 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer. About 4,000 women are diagnosed each year, mostly between 35-60 years old with 40% affected below the age of 50.

It is the 3rd most common cancer, accounting for 11% of all cancers in women. Over 1100 women are diagnosed with cervical cancer in Malaysia each year. Risk of cervical cancer increases after 30 years old and peaks at ages 60–69 years old.

I am sure everyone agree that hair, breast and ovaries signify the femininity to a woman. From diagnosis to treatment is a painful process beyond our imagination.

I believe this act of good not only act of financial aid but also to show them that someone out there do care and love them. I’m currently looking for 7 ladies who are kind and brave to join me for this good cause. Do share this event with your friends.

DONATION INFORMATION WILL BE UPDATED ONCE TRUSTED TREASURER APPOINTED.

TARGETING AT RM201200 ^^

These are the things you can do to be part of this memorable and meaningful event, all form of contributions are welcome with open arms

1/ Volunteer to be one of the BALD (LADIES ONLY)

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2/ Share this event on your wall and your networks

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3/ Make a donation (Form and method of donating will update soon!)

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4/ Be a committee through out the project

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5/ Sponsorship, media coverage, photo-shooting.

Interested please email me at shamaine@svelteco.com. For Baldies, please attach your photo with hair length, Name, Age, Occupation and a short briefing about yourself.

Join me on Facebook event https://www.facebook.com/events/250732174991231/

You've Got Mail

I do not know how many times I watched "You've Got Mail" by Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan. I do not know why I like this movie so much, maybe I'm happy to see the happy ending...Can't believe I am still staying single after 12 years divorced, been through some hardships in few relationships which I have to admit that these hardships haunt me sub-consciously into next relationship again.
It has been more than a year but I still feel the pain from my past relationship. No matter how much I acknowledging the pain, it still won't go away for good. But I am sure I'll completely forget this pain, is just the matter of time...
"God doesn't give you the people you want. Instead, he gives you the people you need - to teach you, to hurt you, to love you, to make you into the person you were meant to be." But sometimes I think, do God really know who I need?
Me and my favorite quote..."When he comes, he'll come"

Our Heart & Brain

Read this from Rico a while back "Never use your heart in all your decisions. God placed our brain on top so that you'll use it first before using your heart." And today Zazreen said the same "Never allow your heart to convince your mind that something you know is wrong is right."

But being stubborn as usual, I'm still following my heart most of the time. I think our heart is for supporting or objecting the first thought from the brain and brain will try their very best to convince heart. We alway following our heart till our mind say "wait! Lemme analyze..." then the brain start pulling out data from past experiences,collecting and discussing with eyes,ears and nose. When can't figure out, we will then use our finger make some connection with our hairs or nails shuffling our scalp, if still no result, maybe look up and talk to God also...if God is too busy to help, we then f the logic and tell our heart again..."I follow u" :D If our brain propose a great plan with good back up facts, our heart will back it up with full passion and fire it up ^^

Let the energy vibrate our heart, let the world inspire our brain so we always have facts to fuel up the power in us ^^

Simply Fabulous 41st Birthday

Finally a march out from my 40th, had a wonderful 41st celebrations with my parents, my three wonders and my old time buddies ^^ As years going by, I'm enjoying more and more on every single step, every step on walking alone with faith, steps walking with family and friends giving me so much of joys even on a bumpy path.
My gratitude to my parents, showing me smiling attitude in facing any challenges...my gratitude to my children having faith in me in any situation...my gratitude to my friends supporting me with your open arms. Truly appreciate and I'm so glad I came to know all the smiley faces from all over the world...I am grateful to everything provided by the mighty.
God blessed everyone and Love always ^^

Thank you for all the warmth birthday wishes my friends, these certainly bring much joys in my fabulous 41st ^^ I am wishing Real Steel, $$$ and a castle in the greens... hard to come by? ok I'll continue wishing every year until God heard me :D

I'm wishing everyone in good health, a life fills with love & smile on each single day ^^ HUGS

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Afriza Fou * wishing u a happy birthday
Aileen Yong * ♪ ̧.•* ̈`*ིྀ ̊ღ ❤ ̊•...H a P P y ★ B i R t H D a Y ∵~★.☆∵。*∵~★.☆∵。
Alex Atoz * (Happy Birthday to You ! HappyBee).
Alex Nathan * Happy Birthday Shamaine! :)
Alex Saw * happy birthday..shamaine..
Ali Agd * HaPpy Birthday Shamaine ;-p wish you the Great fun today. will catchya soon!
Alicia Loh * Happy Birthday~!!!
Amy T L Tan * Happy birthday!
Andrea * Happy Birthday my dear! *cake*
Angeline Liew * Happy birthday to you!!
Angie Ng * Happy belated birthday Shamaine. Sorry I didn't have access to fb in the last few days. Evacuate to Saigon now. Hope u have a great birthday with ur loved ones.
Anthony Foo * Happy Birthday, Shamaine =)
App Tan * Ah Leng happy birthday oh~~
Appy Foo * Have a nice evening
Atie Mohd Yusak * Hola Hot Lady...happy birthday...;-D
Audrey Loo * Happy Birthday Shamaine!
Aynaz Reihani * Happy Birthday dear! wish you all the best.kisses.
Azadeh Eskandari * Happy B-D girl, have a blast !

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Bee Fuey Ching * Happy Birthday, Shamaine!
Ben Lim * hey..Birthday Bee..hv a good one ya...God bless.
Ben Wismen * aunt shamaine, happy blessed birthday to you. i hope u are having a blast now :)
Bob Tan * Happy birthday to an exceptional person

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C.c. Foong * Happy birthday to you^_^
Calvin Cheong * sang yatt fai lok, ah leng!!!!!
Calvin Ho * Happy birthday Ah Leng
Cedric Low * Hapi Bigday!
Celyn Wai Mun Chan * happy birthday....
Chadwick Siebel * Happy Birthday, Sharmaine. Have a great day !!
Cherynn Lai * happy birthday pretty ^^
Chia Siaw Ping * Happy Birthday to U !!!!
Chin Lin * happy birthday Shamaine. continue to share your energy and optimism with us
Chow Foong Yien * dear, happy birthday, stay young:)
Chow Kok Kin * Happy Birthday to you, Shamaine!!! May all your birthday wishes comes true. ;-P
Chow Kok Kin * selamat hari jadi. ;-)
Chris Shayan * happy birthday
Chris Tee * Hey! Happy Happyyyyyy Birthday to you.......:)
Chris Wee * Happy bday Shamaine!
Christine Ow Yong * HaPpY BufDaY! Stay pretty n healthy! ^-^
Chua Limbang * Happy birthday !
Chuang Pui Yee * Happy birthday, pretty :D
Cindy Ho * Happy belated birthday, hot mama!
Clementine Lee * Happy birthday !!
Cody Law H B * Happy Birthday ah!! :P
Colleen Oh * happy blessed burfday dear !
Connie Ng * Happy birthday~~~~
Corin Kf * Happy belated Birthday, Sharmaine and hope you enjoyed the best days of your life and with many more to come ! God Bless!
Cp Phua * Happy Birthday Shamaine
Cynthia Pavee * Happy Birthday

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Daniel Choong * Same here.. Happy Birthday Leng Leng Shamaine
Daniel Euceur * Happy Birthday, better late than never…
Danny Chang * Happy Birthday to you
Danny Yip * Happy Birthday Friend!
Darren Singh * Happy Birthday!
Daven Nair * Happy Birthday Shamaine!!!!! Hope you have a lovely one...... Cheers!!!!!
Debbie Lee Tai Wai * Happy belated birthday, Shamaine. May you grow in wisdom and beautiful. May your laughter never cease to bring happiness and fun to everyone around you.
Debby Wong * Wow. U wish me first this year. TQVM. Happy Birthday to you, all the best.
Dennis Warren Daniel * HappY Birthday! God Bless U ,..& Have A GreaT One....
Derek Kuah Yi Seong * happy early birthday wish..stay healthy always
Desmond Sim * Have an awesome birthday for yourself and enjoy the every moment of it!
Dev Ram * Happy Bday Bee!!
Dinish Kumar * Happy birthday
Dino Goh * 欢喜过生日~！
Doc Faisal * Sharmine..... May all your wishes come true..... Have a safe celebration.... Happy Birthday dear.... GOD bless you always... :)

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Echo GL Tan * Happy Birthday!
Eddie Chai * Ya! happy happy to your everyday ya
Eddie Yap * Happy Belated Birthday Sharmaine! I'm sure you had a blast!
El Choo * wow. now can. Happy B'day dear!
Elaine Leow * happy b'day
Elissa Ilian * HAppY BuRfDaY my dear.. u're looking younger n younger every yr..hugz
Ellina Yap * Happy happy birthday!! Wish u happy always )^o^(
Emily Chia * Happy Birthday!
Emily Koo * Happy birthday deear J
Emmerine Tan * Happy Birthday. wish you always happy,healthy & forever young
Emo Nikolov * Happy Birthday , Happy Bee : Get All the BEST from the BEST!!!
Eugene Wong * hapi birthday!...

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Fabian Ho * happy birthday
Farimah Ghasemboland * Happy birthday . wish you the best
Fazillah Hassan * Happy Birthday old friend!! Enjoy..
Fion Chin * Happy birthday :)
Fong Lee Yong * Happy birthday pretty!!!
Fong Li * happy brithday to u....liang lui..
Francesco Argento * heyyyyy Shamaine Happy birthday!!! J I wish you all the best, enjoy your day!! I’m sure u will enjoy your nite ;) big kiss
Francis Chin * Happy birthday!
Fritz von Münchhausen * Happy happy b-day! c:

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Gary Tiow * Yippie burpppp.......day HappyBee!! Cheers....
Gordon Nonis * Happy Birthday Shamaine! :D
Grace T. Bessant * Happy happy hor...

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Hanzman Klein * HBD Shamaine..GBU Always..
Hazel Leong * HAppy Birthday gorgeous!!
Henry Tanuwiharja * happy b'day :D
Heong Chee Mei * Happy Birthday to you Shamaine :D may all your dreams come true! Stays pretty healthy happy forever :D xxx
Hg Helena * 生日快乐 ....
Ho Yew Yee * Er Jie, happy belated birthday! :p
Honey Lemon * happy birthday Shamaine!
Hong Atoz * I'm smelling a b'day girl is in the haus!!! :D
Humberto Santana Castellano * Happy Birthday Shamaine! have a wonderful day! Kissesssss! :)

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Iceblue Aballe * Happy birthday, Shamaine. Age is just a number, what is more important is that we remain young at heart :) Have a blast, girl!!!
Ika Ramz * Happy birthday :)
Inayah Ariffin * Happy birthday, flower! :) xoxo
Ivan Ho * Hi Shamaine, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

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Jackie Khoo * Happy 'Bling-Bling' Birthday! ♥
Jaclyn Choong * Happy Birthday, girl! May you have a great day ahead :D
Jaime Briz * Happy Birthday, Shamaine!
James T K Khoo * hapi bday shamie jeh jeh :D
Jamie Phuah * Happy birthday dear..wishing u prosperous n health 4 u wil b happy as always…muack muack muack
Janny & Stephen * Happy belated birthday to you. Wish your life getting happier & happier.
Jasmine Ho * Happy Birthday my fren!! J
Jasmine Yap * happy birthday hot mama!!
Jason Chan * Happy Shamaine Day!
Jayanthi Asokan * Happy happy birthday dear Shamaine, have a wonderful day :)
Jeevan Sahadevan * Happy birthday hot shot!
Jeff Hwong * Happy happy bday...have fun
Jeff Jun Wei * Happy Birthday!
Jennifer Young * good morning and happy birthday, shamaine! may God grant you all the desires of your heart and stay charming always! :)
Jes Aballe * Happy Birthday Shamaine HappyBee! Stay beautiful and happy.
Jesphine Quah * Hi Shamaine Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day and lots of fun!!
Jet Poon * happy birthday mom!!!
Jimmy Lim * sang yat fai lock...
Jimmy Oddstuff Chew * hepi heppi burfdei shamaine...
Jo Aina Tan * Happy bday, pretty woman! Stay healthy and pretty! :)
Jocelyn Chin Hui * Happy Birthday Shamaine!!!!
Joe Yap * AIYO!!! How could I have missed this beautiful lady's birthday!!!! Too late better than never.. :) Happy Belated Birthday my dear... :) nvm.. Everyday also your birthday!!! ;) Dun worry.. the number decreases.. kekekeke
Johnnie Lim * Shamaine., Happy Birthday.
Johnny Ong * happy birthday to u
Jonathan Teoh * happy happy birthday
Josephine Fong * Happy Belated Birthday Shamaine! ♥
Josephine S F Tan * Happy Birthday..
Joyce Peh * Happy Birthday :)
Joyce Puan * Happy Birthday !
Jr Niger * Happy Birthday Shamaine!
Julie Tan * Wen. Happy belated birthday. May god bless u abundance in all ur wishes.

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Kamen Liew * Happy Birthday....
Karen Neoh * happy happy birthday gorgeous!!!
Katie Mat * happy birthday Shamaine!!! have a blast!
Kelly Lee * Happy birthday !
Ken Wong * Happy Birthday :) where you celebrating ;)
Kenmin Ken * Happy Birthday to U !!!!
Kenny Chan * Hi!!!Leng Lui!! i c a lot of yr frens refer to u as leng lui....wat's yr secret? nd to share it with my wife !!!...hahaha!!! Anyway, Have the Greatest Blessed Birthday ever!!!..:-)
Khinny Ho * happy birthday to you ........
Khor Teong Hiel * Happy Birthday Shamaine HappyBee
Khun Liz * Happy Birthday Ms Happy Bee ! :) Stay energetic & youthful always !
Kingston Foo * Happy Birthday Shamaine...have a great one boss
Kirk Keong Lee * Happy Birthday HappyBee, i m sure you will have a blast... :) have more... :0)
Kl Chong * Happy birthday
Kt Caren * leng lui Shamaine HappyBee 生日快乐，美艳动人！
Kw Chin * Happy birthday, I hear fireworks celebrating flr u.

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L C Meng Poksy * Happy birthday, Pretty Girl.
LaiYee Sit * Happy birthday, Shamaine!
Larry Law * Yo yo~~生日快乐, 青春常驻~
Leong Chan Leng * happy b'day
Lim Hsin Yi * Reanne's mummy !! HAPPY BUFFDAY ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ wohoo
Lim Thin Chin * happy birthday
Linda Chan * hi happy birthday to u shamaine!
Loke Poi Ching * hapi belated b'day, gal. btw, i luv ur profile pic.
Low Mei Lin * Happy Birthday.............. :)
Lucas Ng Weidy * happy birthday!!
Lum Oldman * Happy Belated Birthday to You ;)

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Maria汤宁霄 * 生日快乐！♪(´ε｀ )
Marcus Yong * Inside every older person is a younger person – wondering what the hell happened.... just kidding, Happy Birthday.
Mark Han * Happy Birthday, my fellow suukee.. :-)
Masoumeh Myr * Happy happy birthday! wish you all the best and hope to have the best one :*
Matthias Gelber * Happy green birthday to the HappyBee
Melvin Chan * Happy Birthday Happy Bee ! all the best
Mervyn LilSlyder Hsh * Happy Belated B-day LL :)
Michael Ty Lee * Aiks ..... happy belated b'day !
Michelle Mah * Happy belated Birthday and always be bless.
Mohammad Mohammadi * happy birthday to u Shamaine, many happy returns of today
Moh'd Sani Yau * happy buffdaee shamaine..! wishing u long life full of success & accomplishment.!(*_*)
Msian Gutter Politics * Happy birthday
Muntip Liew * happy birthday, u r forever young!

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Natalie Toon * Happy Birthday!!!!!!
Neny Solis Chew * Yippy Burbday Beautiful ! Looking great, stay healthy and forever sweet. Muacks (^^)
Nkki Sunny Spot * Wishing you loads of love,joy and suprises on your birthday, have a blast my dear ! :)
Nora Foo * happy birthday gorgeous! :)

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Ong Ky * Sukee, wish you a hapbee, healthbee and wealthbee birthday!!!
Ong Wai Meen * My dear friend. You are just like “Fine Wine”. You grow better with the years! Happy Birthday To Yo *Shamaine*. Wishing you all the fun and excitement that only Birthdays can bring.

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Patrick Yong * Happy Deepavali Birthday! :-)
Pauline Gerault * happy birthday!
Pei Pei Tai * 靓女！心想事成！生日快乐！
Peter Lau * Happy Birthday to You
Phua Chiu Kiang * Happy belated birthday Shamaine. Looking better every year :).
Prasath Kanagaras * Happy birthday babe
Princess Diane * Happy Belated Birthday! Was so drunk yesterday that i cant even log in to Facebook! Anyway i celebrated it yesterday behalf of you here n yes we all had fun! xoxo
Puvan Maha Iswara * happy birthday miss!

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Regine * Happy Birthday. Mummy! I love you!
Reanne * Happy Birthday Mummy
Ryan * Happy Birthday Mummy
Rachel Kuan * Happy belated Birthday :*) :*) :*)
Raymond Chew * Happy Birthday 2u....^.^.....
Razli Ralib * Hppy Bday sis!
Reena Tz * Happy birthday, sweetie! Hv a great year ahead and may all ur wishes come true....:)) Fr us: Damien & Reena
Reinee Pan * Happy birthday to leng lui Shamaine, looking great every year! Cheers!
Remy Foo * Happy birthday to you!!!
Rich Too * wish you happy and blessed birthday!!!
Richard Yeoh * happy bday happyBee :-)
Riko Yee * Happy Birthday Shamaine!
Rochek Kk * HappyBee Day!
Rolaand Tan * Happy birthday babe ;)
Royyie Ling * Happy Birthday Shamaine HappyBee beauty as always ya... ^_- muax...
Rozalynn Zainul * happy birthday hot mama!!
Ruby Choong * Happy birthday pretty

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Sam Hulk Blaster * happy birthday bee~~~!!!
Samuel Chan * Happy birthday!
Sandra Chan * Happy birthday beautiful! Have a great one!!! xx
Shang Ko * Happy Birthday Shamaine HappyBee!!!! Hope your day will be as wonderful as you wish it to be. See you soon!
Shanice Leong * Happeee BUTTDAY! May your day be great and coming year awesome..
Sharon Cheong * happy birthday...
Sharon Yeoh * Happy birthdayy hot babe..~!!!
Shee Meng Voon * Happy Birthday.....
Shelby Kho * ♥ pink bday shamaine :)
Sherrena Chiam * "I hope this year brings you all the fulfillment and success that your heart desires."
Sherry Lee * Happy birthday Shamaine dear =) wish you remain youthful & cheerful all year round. Be blessed =D
Shwu Shyan Pou * Happy Birthday!
Sleepy Genie * Happy birthday shamaine~ have a great one!
SooChin Chan * happy birthday!
Sook Yee * Happy birthday to you.
Stanley Chin * Happy Birthday...
Stanlley Tai * happy birthday beautiful hottie! ;)
Stephanie Xavier * happy birthday shamaine!!! have an awesome birthday and stay young at heart always! xxooxx : )
Stephy Ng * Happy burfday, woman!!! may you always stay the pretty, young and healthy :) enjoy your special day ya! cheers :)
Suki Jezz * bella beautiful....happy bday.........muckz muckz!
Sunrise Seekers Sayli * blessed fabulous woman day!@
Sze Yen * happy birthday ^^

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Tan Nee Fei * Happy birdday. Yang yang. Cheers and happy always.
Teng Choonweng * happy birthday pretty, may all your wish came true
Terry Kok * Happy birthday...
Tey Cindy * happy belated birthday, happy bee! hope to meet up with u soon ^.^
Thomas Christopher Nabil Ribbe * Happy Happy Bee Day!!! Enjoy your special day :D
Tony Lin * 嘿!!生日快樂^^祝福..

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Valene Chin * happpy birthday my dear! just stay sha!!! xo
Victor The * Happy, happy birthday. Keep smiling, it brings smiles to others too.
Victoria Law * Happy Belated Birthday dear HappyBee :D
Vince Tieh * Happee burthday

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Wendy Low * Dearest Shamaine, wishing you a very “Happy BiRTHDay” and all the very BEST! Enjoy your day!
Wendy Ong * happy belated birthday...
Weng Woo * wish u happy birthday...
William Foo * Npi Bday..hv fun
Winnie Loo M H * Happy birthday Sharmaine..
Wui Joel * Happy buf day

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Xeryue Cheeng * Happy Birthday...wishing you all the best. Today is still 26th in London.....hehe...cold & wet here.
Xiang-Yi Khor * Happy Birthday Shamaine! Stay cheerful, pretty and full of life and energy always! ^^
Xiao Zhen * Happy birthday babe!!!!!!!

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Yasmin Suraya * Happy Birthday..have a great day...
Yippie MY * Happy Birthday... Wishes you all the BEST and HAPPY always.
You Xian Hang * Happy birthday =)
Yvonne Hen * Happy Birthday, Shamaine! Have a blast!
Yvonne Siew * HappyBirthday Shamaine HappyBee day to you!! xxx

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Zac Lim * happy birthday !!
Zazreen Zahovic * Happy birthday pretty woman!! wishing you a blessed & happy life ever after! ;)
Zibert Wong * Happy birthday gorgeous...stay healthy and pretty ya
Zieda Halem * Hello my dear..Happy Birthday to you...muah..muah..
彬驸马 * 祝妳生日快樂~願望成真唷~::::::: Happy Birthday to You::::::

Night Cream or Nightmare?

Ok ok...I know is not good at all saying this, but I choose to be bad now!
Do you know why a handful of ladies paying RM1000 over for a night cream? Coz they are super dumb! hoping that the 1k+ night cream is not only making them look more beautiful but also making them smarter!
Don't brands know they are overpriced? Yes! sure they do but they also know clearly those customers buying these products know nothing except spending :D
Read the lable, use your smart phone, google the ingredients, be smart! Is important to know what ingredient needed for specific function. So you can spend minimal but still getting the result you want. (by the way, in my opinion, night cream more than RM250 already falls into the range of overpriced!!!)

The Apple Man

Sounded strange when I had never once own an single Apple product, he never heard of my name and not even knowing who I am throughout his entire life. But I have such a strong feeling about his death. Steve Jobs, a man that I love from a distance.

This I am writing to pay a respect to him, as a remembrance for a great person. A true brand creator I see, A marketing class that I learn in action not in class, not in book. I've read books about branding and marketing, but no Gurus build or market a brand like how he did it.

I love his passion and vision of what he believes in, living what he loves and holds it till the last breath of it. In him I see "Faith". Some may say his life is short for only 56 years, to me, he lived the longest and richest, leaving not only a book for himself, but a chapter worth reading in many of us.

May you rest in peace...Steve Jobs.

我有几首歌？

应该是深夜的静易令人回顾及反思。听着这首张国荣的“有谁共鸣”，惊叹一百六十四个汉字就能道尽了人生浮沉，心情起落。。。佩服填词人的功力。
每个人一生中听过的歌何其多，我相信每一个人都曾被一些歌曲感动过， 还能借歌曲唱出人生。有的人生可能少于几首歌，有的人生却有唱不完的歌。
我的人生又有几首歌呢？



抬頭望星空一片靜
我獨行　夜雨漸停
無言是此刻的冷靜
笑問誰　肝膽照應
風急風也清　告知變幻是無定
未明是我苦笑卻未停
不信命　只信雙手去苦拼
矛盾是無力去暫停
可會知　我心裡困倦滿腔
夜闌靜　問有誰共鳴
從前是天真不冷靜
愛自由　或會忘形
明白是得失總有定
去或留　輕鬆對應
孤單中顫抖　我知我實在難受
問誰願意失去了自由
想退後　心裡知足我擁有
前去亦全力去尋求
風也清　晚空中我問句星
夜闌靜　問有誰共鳴

Knowledge - My Anti-Aging Supplement

If we can accept the concept of taking in anti-oxidant helps slow down the aging process by stabilizing free radicals. Then knowledge will be the anti-oxidants for our brain cells. The more we are feeding positive messages or knowledge into our brain, these positive messages will then take on the role like anti-oxidant stabilizing the unstable molecules (negative thoughts or information). Our brain cells actively exercising the brain muscles, sending the positive vibration throughout our body cells and deliver positive result.

Each time reading, learning and feeding my mind excites me, especially when I'm holding a good book, learning some new skills or meeting up some great minds, I can hear my heart singing and my mind smiling. These feeling makes me feeling young always.

So in my own fact of life : Knowledge is an official anti-aging supplement for me ^^

201109 Olala Beach Party

A wonderful getaway for the Single Tingle event. Love seeing beautiful faces having fun and laughing together. I thank all for the sweet memory. Love ^^

I Loved You First

A very touching letter from Neil Bush to his daughter Lauren before her wedding. I'm seeing the love of a man, the love of a parent.

There is no love can replace the love from a parent. With here I dedicate this to my parents and my children Ryan, Reanne and Regine (Of all people in your life I loved you first) and to all the parents and children out there.

Do You Know?

Some seeing the world with their hands,
feeling the world with heart.

Some hearing the world with their eyes,
speaking their mind with hands.

Some living the world without limbs, but living with passion ^^


BUT SADLY

Some seeing, hearing, touching, feeling the world otherwise...

Some living everyday without a choice,

some living not knowing they have a choice...

Is not the matter of

what we have or don't...

but the matter of how much

we appreciate our 'Gifts' ^^

I Am A Fortune Teller ^^

I'm a fortune teller ^^ If you can give a big smile to my Good Day Smiley now and smile to 3 people you meet after, I'm sure you are gonna have a lovely day! Do this every morning or when you are feeling sad and you'll notice a big change in life ^^

Journée belle!

What Have We Done To Mother Earth?

(Please pause the music on right before you play this video ^^ Thanks)

Each time when I am back to the natures, I always have the same questions running on my head "What had we done to the natures? The human being always think that we are the smartest animal in the earth but we are not at all by looking at the damages we've done to our mother earth."

Clearly the law of attractions, while browsing on Youtube this afternoon, I found this video. A speech made by an age 12 girl during UN Earth Summit 1992 in Rio, Brazil. here is the full text of Severn Cullis-Suzuki’s speech and I urge all must take some time to finish the speech.

"Hello, I’m Severn Suzuki speaking for E.C.O. – The Environmental Children’s Organisation.

We are a group of twelve and thirteen-year-olds from Canada trying to make a difference:
 Vanessa Suttie, Morgan Geisler, Michelle Quigg and me. We raised all the money ourselves to come six thousand miles to tell you adults you must change your ways. Coming here today, I have no hidden agenda. I am fighting for my future.

Losing my future is not like losing an election or a few points on the stock market. I am here to speak for all generations to come. I am here to speak on behalf of the starving children around the world whose cries go unheard. I am here to speak for the countless animals dying across this planet because they have nowhere left to go. We cannot afford to be not heard. I am afraid to go out in the sun now because of the holes in the ozone. I am afraid to breathe the air because I don’t know what chemicals are in it.

I used to go fishing in Vancouver with my dad until just a few years ago we found the fish full of cancers. And now we hear about animals and plants going extinct every day — vanishing forever.

In my life, I have dreamt of seeing the great herds of wild animals, jungles and rainforests full of birds and butterflies, but now I wonder if they will even exist for my children to see. Did you have to worry about these little things when you were my age?

All this is happening before our eyes and yet we act as if we have all the time we want and all the solutions. I’m only a child and I don’t have all the solutions, but I want you to realise, neither do you!

• You don’t know how to fix the holes in our ozone layer.

• You don’t know how to bring salmon back up a dead stream.

• You don’t know how to bring back an animal now extinct.

• And you can’t bring back forests that once grew where there is now desert.

If you don’t know how to fix it, please stop breaking it!

Here, you may be delegates of your governments, business people, organisers, reporters or politicians – but really you are mothers and fathers, brothers and sister, aunts and uncles – and all of you are somebody’s child.

I’m only a child yet I know we are all part of a family, five billion strong, in fact, 30 million species strong and we all share the same air, water and soil — borders and governments will never change that I’m only a child yet I know we are all in this together and should act as one single world towards one single goal.

In my anger, I am not blind, and in my fear, I am not afraid to tell the world how I feel. In my country, we make so much waste, we buy and throw away, buy and throw away, and yet northern countries will not share with the needy. Even when we have more than enough, we are afraid to lose some of our wealth, afraid to share. In Canada, we live the privileged life, with plenty of food, water and shelter — we have watches, bicycles, computers and television sets and the lists may go on for days. 

Two days ago here in Brazil, we were shocked when we spent some time with some children living on the streets. And this is what one child told us: “I wish I was rich and if I were, I would give all the street children food, clothes, medicine, shelter and love and affection.” If a child on the street who has nothing, is willing to share, why are we who have everything still so greedy?

I can’t stop thinking that these children are my age, that it makes a tremendous difference where you are born, that I could be one of those children living in the Favellas of Rio; I could be a child starving in Somalia; a victim of war in the Middle East or a beggar in India.

I’m only a child yet I know if all the money spent on war was spent on ending poverty and finding environmental answers, what a wonderful place this earth would be!

At school, even in kindergarten, you teach us to behave in the world. You teach us:

• not to fight with others,

• to work things out,

• to respect others,

• to clean up our mess,

• not to hurt other creatures

• to share – not be greedy.

Then why do you go out and do the things you tell us not to do?

Do not forget why you’re attending these conferences, who you’re doing this for — we are your own children. You are deciding what kind of world we will grow up in. Parents should be able to comfort their children by saying “everything’s going to be alright” , “we’re doing the best we can” and “it’s not the end of the world”.

But I don’t think you can say that to us anymore. Are we even on your list of priorities? My father always says “You are what you do, not what you say.” Well, what you do makes me cry at night. You grown ups say you love us. I challenge you, please make your actions reflect your words. Thank you for listening."

The speech touched me a lot. This speech made 9 years ago but now we are still seeing the same indeed getting worst. As her says "If you don’t know how to fix it, please stop breaking it!" This link to her 

* A little about Severn Cullis-Suzuki - born 30 November 1979 in Vancouver, Canada. She is an environmental activist, speaker, television host and author. She has spoken around the world about environmental issues, urging listeners to define their values, act with the future in mind, and take individual responsibility. At her 9, she founded the Environmental Children's Organization (ECO), a group of children dedicated to learning and teaching other youngsters about environmental issues. In 1992, at age 12, she raised money with members of ECO Michelle Quigg, Vanessa Suttil, and Morgan Geisler to attend the UN Earth Summit. 

Woman The Weak or The Strong?

Woman knows when to be a weak when she found someone who can depend on; has the strength carrying herself up when she knows the one she walks with can't be rely on. 10 out of 10 women want to be protected, every woman wants to show their softness to the man they loves. A woman will shows her femininity when she trust her man, when she feels love, when she feels secure.

If a woman ask a man "Do you love me?", it means "Will you protect me? Can I trust you?" A man can be trusted, a man who can shows his woman he'll protect her in any situation will see the softest side of his woman. Woman is born to be protected by man and man is a born protector.

Man, if you find your woman being too strong, maybe is time to see what have you done to her? ^^

什麼是智慧?

今早Ben Lim 转载有关智慧的分享， 让我对“智慧”有所启示。。。

“什麼是智慧呢？ 智慧就是懂得下一步，該怎麼走 一件事情，本來只是單純的「一件事」， 然而如果我們不知道該怎麼處理， 就會產生「焦慮」； 焦慮累積， 會形成「壓力」； 壓力不能解決，就變成「問題」； 而問題太多又生出「煩惱」； 煩惱久了， 就變成「抑鬱」和「痛苦」。 這說穿了，就是「沒智慧」。 copy & paste fr.潘海风”

对我而言“智慧”的累积都得经过了以上种种才能拥有的。可是要如何能够聪明冷静的化阻力为助力，让负面能量转化为生存的力量？这就是智慧。而这当中最重​要的机制，我想关键在于我们能否在徘徊十字路口，不知所措时，能够承认自己是弱者，而适时性的呼唤求助，这将会是智慧的最大发挥。

逆境或顺境都是智慧的温床，弱者或强者是智慧的工具。

Time Is Gold

The old saying "Time is Gold"

After years, I have to admit "Yes! Time is the best in everything...
It heals pain;
it proves faith;
it reveals truth,
it shows result."

Ah Shake & Ah Mix ^^

I love mixing around with my favorite fruits, ice-cream, protein powder, grains, milk or anything I can think of ^^
I have a secret of making yummy shake too, make sure you shake together while shaking your shake ^^

Banana Shake
Magnolia skim milk 200ml + 2 banana ( It taste better than HL banana milk)

Green tea ice-cream
Nestle vanilla 200ml + 1/3 table spoon of green tea powder (stir it till all mix well, can put back in fridge for about 10 minutes but usually I can't wait and like the smoothie texture ^^)
*Nestle vanilla is economical, creamy but not too milky
*I am a green tea freak, will go crazy in anything with green tea. Can get it from Carrefour or any Japanese food store (ingredients are tea leaves only or sometimes with gold flakes), price from Carrefour is cheaper at around RM7 because the ingredients are tea leafs + rice. Bought one during my trip to japan years back and love it, I added in to anything whenever possible ^^

Strawberry Shake
Magnolia skim milk 200ml + 2 scoops of Haagen Dazs strawberry ice-cream (You will find the "bestest" strawberry shake in town ^^)

Green Tea Coffee
King 3 in 1 Ipoh White Coffee 200ml + 1/2 tablespoon green tea powder (MAMA MIA!!!)

Coffee Wheat Shake
Magnolia skim milk 180ml + 1 table spoon coffee powder (find your favorite coffee powder, for me I like Davidoff ^^) + Sanitarium Weet-Bit 1 bar

Best Premium Coffee
Any black coffee + 1 scoop of Haagen Darz Vanilla ice-cream/ Nestle Vanilla ( with Haagen Darz, you can even smell the vanilla aroma together with your coffee ^^)

Cornflakes Green Tea Ice-cream  
Nestle vanilla ice-cream + green tea powder. When done just add in some Nestle plain cornflakes (no Kellogg's, Nestle taste better)

Liquor Coffee ice-cream
Nestle vanilla 200ml + 1/2 table spoon coffee + 2 table spoon Macallan or any whiskey you like ^^

*I once tried kiwi+skim milk+soya powder and it was a super duper "YIAKS!!!" never try shake anything with soya bean milk or soya powder, because soya can be very foamy.

I love green tea, I love anything with liquor (but I have low alcohol tolerant :p) and I simply mix and match anything I have in my fridge ^^

Enjoy!

Nella Fantasia - In My Fantasy

Thank you SangKyu for a wonderful sharing of this song. The song touched me with its beautiful tune and a very meaningful lyric. Yes it is My Fantasy...reading the lyric you will know what I mean. Have tears every time when I come across something that touched me and this is one.

In my fantasy I see a fair world,
Where everyone lives in peace and honesty.
I dream of a place to live that is always free,
Like a cloud that floats,
Full of humanity in the depths of the soul.

In my fantasy I see a bright world
Where each night there is less darkness.
I dream of spirits that are always free,
Like the cloud that floats.

In my fantasy exists a warm wind,
That breathes into the city, like a friend.
I dream of souls that are always free, Like the cloud that floats,
Full of humanity in the depths of the soul.

And I know why I had tears when I heard this song, because is what I always wanted and I found it in my post two years ago.

我祈求毅力与勇气面对问题。。。

我祈求智慧与心宽看待人生。。。

我祈求包容与耐心接受朋友。。。

我祈求自在与享受迎接生活。。。

我祈求快乐与健康每一个人。。。

我祈求幸福与和平在世界的每一个角落。。。

（二零零九年六月五日）

Word Power or Mind Power?

We must learn when to let word stay and make our memory in life, we must also learn to pick up words that will empower us, we must also shield ourselves from those words that will pull us down.

Word has no meaning by itself, but the one who uses it injects feeling in it. If you are feeling a word that you are seeing, that is because you are giving your feeling in it. We often came across some writings that touched us, that was because we were in sync with the writer, we felt the writer's thought and feeling.

Greatest forces in the world can’t be seen with our eyes but through feeling. Everything we see has been transformed. Faith, Love, Passion, Idea, Energy, Emotion…word is just one of the important tool bridging the unseen be seen. So watch our words because they carry us.

Silly Thoughts Running On My Silly Mind ^^

Just for the fun of putting all the words together ^^

I grew up with Love, Luck, Laugh, Tears, Joy, Fun, Lazy, Brave and Play. They were my childhood friends since I can remember my childhood. Everything went well until I met a long lost friend Selfish, he introduced me to his gang Ego and Squander.

Although knowing them for a short time but I know Luck, Joy, Fun and Laugh are slowly moving away from me. Tears volunteered to stay on with me, I did asked him to go but he insisted to stay on. Lost touched with Play since I started my relationship with Work, Work is a boring fellow but Money is his father and paying everything for us, so I have no choice to stay on with Work. Because of this, I begged Laugh and Fun stay with me. I am grateful to two of them, because no matter what happened, they had never abandon me and walking with me till now.

When I lost almost everything, Selfish, Ego and Squander finally left me, but I met Doubt and Debts, When they came visited me, they always invited along Lonely, Sad and Fear together with Tears enjoyed party till late night. Sometimes they can be so rude, even party hard in the afternoon. But as I mentioned, my two best friends Laugh and Fun never leave me when I needed them most, whenever Tears wanted Sad and Lonely stay longer with me, both of them will get chased out by Laugh and Fun.

I was given a chance attended Colonel Izzi "Awareness Before Change" course in year 2000. He helped me came to know the real Me, introduced me Grateful and also share with me about a legend Faith. But I never met Faith before and I do not know how he looks like. I started to search for Faith, I tried every possible ways finding him until I given up because he is so hard to find no matter what and how much I tried.

Until I met an important person that changed my life - Chao Wei, he was the one told me where Faith has been hiding and helped me find him. I've never realized that for all this while, Faith has been walking with me side by side, shown up when I lost hope in everything, lifted me up when I was hanging on, hiding in all my books and music, and been sleeping with me whenever I'm alone. From there on, because of Faith, I am always surrounding by his best friends Grateful, Respect, Humble, Kind, Sharing and Giving. Laugh and Fun are so excited for me, because they both know that I am finally accepting their cousin Sincerity with an open heart.

Because of Faith, I am attracting more and more good friends Exciting, Optimistic, Learn. Best of all, Luck, Joy, Brave and Play are coming back and they all told me that they are gonna stay with me for good. Oya...Best best best of all, Love said he never left me all this while just like Faith. He told me whenever I see Faith, I can never miss him from my sight. I am truly glad and blessed with all my good friends here. Sshhhh...they shared a secret with me, Laugh, Joy and Love have non-identical twins. Laugh and Health, Joy and Youth, Love and Beautiful. Hahahaha... Isn't it great when life is full of surprises ^^

O...Where is Lazy? well...he is still around, especially during the rains come, he likes to stay in bed with me. He just one never change, maybe I should introduce him to Sleep...but if I'm not mistaken, they already knew each other since long ago...

The End of my silly story ^^

Ps. Where is Happy? I lost Happy!!! OoOoOo...she is sitting here and writing (^ . ^)

My Shadow Story

Some thought about "Shadow". Thanks Jamie for allowing me share her photo here and also taken some images from Darren Rowse.

Only the conscious one aware of their shadow existences...Lived up best with the lights, find stillness with the dark.
We always learn from the both world.

Reflection tells all? Nope...it is just part of us, the truth in us is the best of all.

Our shadow reminds us - living under the light shines out our colours.

Do not judge by our shadow, they never show the laughter on our face.
If you can't see your smiles, others can't see yours too...
All you need to do is simple...just walk to the light till you find your own smile ^^

汤先生的面子书笑话 ^^

爸学会了闲来无聊在Facebook放闲话 ^^ 就在某某天的一个下午。。。



水易君
讲不完的笑话：我很喜欢讲笑话，我讲笑话特别好笑，因为我通常会讲到，要嘛听者笑我不笑；要嘛我笑听者不笑。为什么听者不笑？因为他们在心里笑，会神的笑，外人看不出来。你们耐心听我讲----------嗳呀，我的孙子撒尿，对不起，改天再讲，拜拜---。
Wednesday at 5:33pm ·  · 

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    Gin Ho 哈哈，有人讲自己的笑话特别好笑的咩？
    

    Wednesday at 5:34pm ·  ·  1 person
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    Shamaine HappyBee 哈哈哈。。。爸， 你很闲hor? :D
    

    Wednesday at 7:24pm · 
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    汤宁霄 果然很好笑…
    

    Wednesday at 8:01pm ·  ·  1 person
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    水易君 不愧为大姐-------领悟高
    

    Wednesday at 9:16pm · 
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    Ho Yew Yee 这么多年都认为自己神经质，现在我终于明白了...
    

    Wednesday at 11:55pm ·  ·  2 people
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    Gin Ho 鱿鱼, 不要笑坏你三姐!
    

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    水易君 鱿鱼，难道你言外知音说：有其父必有其子吗？乖zai.
    

    Thursday at 10:45am · 

真的很闲吧 ^^