或许你不会在语言中遇见我,但是你一定会在文字中发现我。

February 23, 2011

Live A Beautifully You ^^

If you Love someone, please tell...because that could be the only moment; If you hate someone, please do not tell...because that could be just a moment... For both the moments, you live a beautifully you ^^

The problem in our society today is that we are too stingy in kind words and manners but generous in sarcasm, we are careful about loving others but freely let go our anger on others. We free our anger easily but we prison our love.

Why are we trusting our feeling of hate so much but we doubt on our love? Why are we believing the bad side of us easily and let it grow instead of trusting the good in us, cultivating it and let it bloom in us? Many in us living in doubts, selfishness, low confident, jealousy, hatred...that's why and how power take place and wars take chances.

When was the last time we said 'I love you' to our loved ones in words or say it or hug them? When was the last time we scolded someone and regretted about it? Yup...I know, is not easy to do it, I lost on it too throwing tantrum and hiding my love when I'm not consciously aware. But aren't we all intelligent human beings, if we can't control our own minds who will?

February 21, 2011

Being True To Myself

Posted this sometimes back in Aug 2010 "I Live For Myself"

~I had been so true, so true until I got myself hurt again and again.
I was true about friendships, I was true about relationships, I was true about my careers, I was true about everything i do and people I come in contact with. But now I ask, was I being true to myself? I guess i was not, otherwise I will not be hurt so much.
From now onwards, "be true to myself...I live for my life" ~

Told myself many times I'll not get hurt anymore, which I'm glad I'm getting better in protecting myself, but will I change not being true to everything? guess if I change that, I am just not me anymore. If being true is to get hurt then I would rather getting hurt, because I know getting hurt will heal, but if I lost the true side to everything, I will never be true to myself too.

While reading back I'm asking myself, have I been true to all, to myself and lived my life out for the past six months after I wrote this? Yes! I am... I am...^^

February 18, 2011

Theory S

Living my SUNSHINE life with Theory 'S'

"make life SIMPLE & SWEET"
"STOP judging others, START living myself"
"make every moment SPECTACULAR"
"make people around me feeling SPECIAL"
^^ KiSS
 
"SHARINGS empower me!"

February 17, 2011

Love Has A Way to Bring Us Back

Read this from Facebook Friends 2 Lovers "Stick your hand on a stove, and you'll be amazed how quickly you remove it. But love, which can hurt far worse, has a way of bringing us back again and again for more and more pain ~Teresa Fiehn~".

Reminded me a blog I wrote 6 months ago which I was still in much pain and not even recovery...I know then the feeling like today will come (pain gone, calm & ease). At then, in one hand I scare the feeling will fade forever and I'll forget the love and pain that I was having, on the other hand I was hoping the pain will be gone forever so I can look forward again. And now...yes, sure enough the pain gone but doubts remaining, wondering will I love again? or just like the phrase said so I will because "Love has a way to bring us back again and again..."

February 14, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day!



~ For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart.
It was not my lips you kissed, 
but my soul ~

Judy Garland


Sometimes I don't know what is Valentine's Day meant for, why do we need a special day to celebrate being together with our loved one, purely marketing :p Been celebrating so many years of Valentine's day, surprisingly I can't recall any special Valentine's day which so memorable to me. Am I that forgetful or actually I've never been in love or simply because the memories diminishing quietly together with the feelings.

Organized an event for the singles and available purely for the fun of it, hopefully I'm able to bring some beautiful memory for my friends instead of having another solo Valentine's day all by themselves. Not only to them, perhaps a memorable joyous Valentine's Day for myself seeing all the happy faces ^^ 

Happy Valentine's Day to everyone I love!

生命的层次

在九运的运转下, 科技的飞速, 虚实的脱节, 心灵的空虚。 一个恍,慌,荒,谎,晃的时代。 停止过度思考不存在的问题, 用绝对的理智管控不该有的情绪。  时刻保持清醒的把自己处在的层次理清 ~ • 第一层次的物质生命: 钱,权,性,利,情。 • 第二层次的精神生命: 仁,义,礼,...